Before you can truly achieve love you should work on self-love first.
Self knowledge, self acceptance, understanding, self-worth, self-love, love.
I didn't truly understand this until I got there.
Go to a local Pagan meeting, see meetup.com, yahoogroups.com, or search for a Pagans in the Park that is local. There is often someone playing with tarot cards.
Good Luck
References :
Clairvoyant, clairgustant, precogniant, etc